Today, I write to my younger-self, FOR my grands--Braden, Kellen and Gabriella and Grayson."I know you will all make choices about the way you live your lives, how you will invest your energy and what kind of legacy you will eventually leave behind. I'm writing because I love you all and don't want to leave these words unsaid.
It's taken me a few years to figure this much out. Were I able to send a note to my younger-self, this is what I'd say...
Know, Trust and Serve God.
Follow Christ.
Be kind.
Think noble thoughts.
Read and ponder history.
Be inclusive.
Love people.
Never mistake tolerance for love.
Be generous.
Teach yourself to say "I do not know."
Think God's thoughts after Him.
Be patient.
Stand up to be heard, sit down to be appreciated.
Cultivate quirky, life is more fun in the quirky lane.
Be a leader, willing to follow.
Invest in your family, you don't get do-overs.
Work hard to make other people successful.
Be humble.
Make mistakes. Learn from them, then celebrate them.
Wake up every day with a hunger to grow.
Be accountable.
Trust that loss isn't the end of life.
Believe that death isn't the end of eternity. It's a portal, not a wall.
Be grateful.
Learn that God meets us in the stillness.
Embrace the things you fear. You may never master them, but then again, you might.
Your choices will shape your character. Good character will empower you to be the kind of people God uses to make hard lives easier. Making hard ives easier is a legacy that will transform your world, one needy--and often underserving, person at a time. This is the miraculous power of grace.
Follow Christ.
Be kind.
Think noble thoughts.
Read and ponder history.
Be inclusive.
Love people.
Never mistake tolerance for love.
Be generous.
Teach yourself to say "I do not know."
Think God's thoughts after Him.
Be patient.
Stand up to be heard, sit down to be appreciated.
Cultivate quirky, life is more fun in the quirky lane.
Be a leader, willing to follow.
Invest in your family, you don't get do-overs.
Work hard to make other people successful.
Be humble.
Make mistakes. Learn from them, then celebrate them.
Wake up every day with a hunger to grow.
Be accountable.
Trust that loss isn't the end of life.
Believe that death isn't the end of eternity. It's a portal, not a wall.
Be grateful.
Learn that God meets us in the stillness.
Embrace the things you fear. You may never master them, but then again, you might.
Your choices will shape your character. Good character will empower you to be the kind of people God uses to make hard lives easier. Making hard ives easier is a legacy that will transform your world, one needy--and often underserving, person at a time. This is the miraculous power of grace.
I love you all more than life...gPA
bN tGit
bN tGit
2 comments:
Ben, this is excellent! Worth sharing with our own grands. So many little gems. Esp
"Never mistake tolerance for love.
Be generous.
Teach yourself to say "I do not know.
Be a leader, willing to follow.
Invest in your family, you don't get do-overs.
Work to make other people successful.
Thank you!
Thanks for your kind and encouraging words.
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