Celebrated my year #63, on March 14, 43 shared with Laura as my mate-for-life. In this photo, about one-month into our dating relationship, Laura was 15, I'd just turned 16. I remember that day like it happened yesterday.Reflecting on life at 63, I am reminded, again, about the plaintive message in the Beatles tune "Help." It occurrs to me...what a tremendous insight that song had into what happens to us as we move into the final third of our lives--but seen through the eyes of those five young men. Hence the plaintive nature of the song. In fact, from this side of the time continuum I realize that life today is filled with tradeoffs. While I can't "do it all" anymore, the tenderness I experience as Laura, our kids and friends "stand in the gaps" is profound.
The FabFive had it figured out in 1969, they just didn't realize the light at the end of the tunnel was a train, coming to pick them up and carry them into a new chapter; Life is certainly different, it's definitely sweeter.
The humility that comes with interdependence is liberating.
bN tGit
